In love or a relationship? But still not happy? Feeling less confident? Yes, you are right. You may have these feelings. Not everybody understands your feeling and your condition at that time. Relationship means a happy couple with love, care turning all dreams into reality. Loving anybody is a special feeling for everyone, but loving a narcissistic person may lead you to depression and anxiety. Instead of becoming a confident person, you become frustrated and less confident about your choice.
Narcissistic persons are not like that you talk to them and they are exposed. No, not at all, you have to identify the symptoms of the narcissistic personality. It is a fact everybody deserves to be loved in the same way they love them. Every relation demands love, care, respect, possession, and empathy. These are all those must-do things for every relationship. No relation is complete and a perfect one without these.
Who is Narcissistic?
Now first, let’s discuss who is a narcissistic person? Most of us are having a frustrating relationship but have no idea about this. Let’s make it clear now. Narcissistic persons are those who generally are envious of others or believes that others are envious of them. They always find themselves right no matter what they have done. A true narcissist is someone with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD). It’s a mental health condition characterized by medical.
7 Signs that you are in love with Vulnerable Narcissist
Talking about the relationship with a narcissist, we must have knowledge about the symptoms of these persons. How could you find out a person is a narcissist. Here are the 7 Signs that confirm your love with a narcissist.
1. Dominating Personality
These people are very friendly and lovable at first sight. But in actual they have a dominating personality which ceases them to make relationships flexible. Once they realized you are also in love they start showing dominance. They try to meet you, text you, make you feel so special at first but this is a temporary attitude. They start losing empathy and become self-centered.
The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in.
Morrie Schwartz, from Tuesdays with Morrie
It is human nature you can’t be listener all the time, you also need someone who listens to you, talks about you.
2. Over Protective
They show possessiveness for you which might be a good thing. We all love this character taking this a positive feature. You may also like this attitude at the beginning of your relationship but it will have a negative impact on your relationship. It is a common saying eagle is possessive but once it got fox, it never let them go. So, an over-possessive attitude is also detrimental to you. They want to be focused every time. A sort of jealousy starts developing in them even get jealous of your friend.
3. Superiorty Complex
You are not an important and valuable person in their eyes. They consider themselves superior to others. They keep on self- praising even if they had not done such an extraordinary job. They always hog the conversation telling you how much great person they are. You are nothing in front of them. They have no courage to appreciate you for your big achievements. They try to modify you like them despite the fact they have no extraordinary skills not even have extraordinary manners to show off.
Narcissists think that they deserve to be with other people who are special, and those special people are the only ones who can appreciate them fully.
4. Have better Skills to keep people around themselves
These people have hundreds of ideas to keep you in their life. You are forced to stay in an unwanted relation. Emotional blackmailing plays a key role in it. When you try to run away from such an unhappy relationship. They would never allow you to break it up. They have developed habits to seek your care, attention, and love. They will start blackmailing you emotionally for not breaking up. Their panic reaction will not allow you to go.
5. Insolent Person
Respect is the most important element in love or in any relationship. A narcissist lack respect and considered others worthy. It is first you have to respect, to be respected. Givers need to set limits because takers rarely do. Nobody is going to remember love ever but appreciation and respect are remembered forever.
Make improvements, not excuses. Seek respect not attention.
Roy T. Bennett, The light in the Heart
6. Have their Own Comfort Zone
They have their own comfort zone. They do not expose themselves to everyone. Even they are not happy and comfortable with their neighbors. The main reason is their confidence which is nothing according to researchers. They marked them as a low confident person who is nothing without appreciation and attention. They got panic and their worse reaction doesn’t allow them to keep their relationship for a long period of time.
7. Makes you Feel Embarrass for Your Behavior
Apologizing for someone makes your relationship strong and trusty. Making an apology means you are special to them. They really want you in their life. Admitting mistakes is the best character of a kind-hearted and loving person. If they are not apologizing for their behavior with you not even for their mistakes. They consider themselves right despite admitting their fault. They are narcissistic. They will be blind to their mistakes making you feel guilty about your behavior. This is the most annoying thing about them.
These are the symptoms described by health researchers. This article may be helpful for you in finding either you are also in an exhausting relationship with a narcissistic person. Only one sign does not mean your partner is narcissistic but if you really feel you may go for a psychiatrist. There is nothing bad to consult to have a peaceful relationship. Never ever feel yourself nothing or valueless as everybody is precious in an Eye of God.
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